Lance Armstrong, Chelsey Sullenberger, Todd Beamer, Jeremy Glick, Ethel Krajchir, Tim Tebow, John Elway, Evelyn Toboco – what do these people all have in common? Is there a hero among them? Are they all heroes? Are none?
Tonight a friend of mine posted the following comment on facebook in response to the report that the United States Attorney’s Office closed their investigation into Lance Armstrong’s team developing a doping program while partially receiving government funding as a member of US Postal:
“Its about time they realize…Lance Armstrong really is that good.”
My response was that we shouldn’t equate a dropped investigation with a finding of innocence. This then turned into a discussion about how Lance is a hero to which I took a pause.
The list of people above are all people that I believe have influenced people’s lives, aside from Lance, I’ve listed a few other athletes such as Tim Tebow who uses his celebrity to pursue his faith in his religion and for his missionary activities. Is Tebow a hero? Another commenter on facebook posted that a hero is someone who walks the walk not someone who talks the talk. By that criteria Tebow would certainly measure up until you listen to those who believe he is anything but a hero. He is determined for sure, but do missionary activities help those for whom they are intended or are they similar to the crusades of old, imputing a belief system onto societies that have no wish or need to have this done to them?
Captain Sullenberger walked the talk by saving the lives of those on Flight 1549 when he safely landed the distressed plane in the Hudson River. Is he a hero or was he simply executing his duties as a pilot and doing everything he could to do that? What if he failed? What if a wave had caught an edge of the wing and the plane hadn’t landed safely, would that make the Captain any less of a hero? Does this mean that heroism must be decided by the outcome?
If outcome is now a criteria then what about Todd Beamer and Jeremy Glick? You remember these two men who lost their lives on Flight 93 presumably as they fought to take over the airplane from terrorists on 9/11. Their famous words of “Let’s Roll” became synonymous with heroism, but in the end, they died as did all of the other passengers on that flight. Does the fact that they weren’t successful make them any less heroic?
John Elway, another celebrity athlete who’s fourth quarter comebacks are legendary, is often described as being a hero and his efforts heroic. Like Captain Sullenberger, he was using his ability and executing his job to the best of his ability. He won football games. He did it in dramatic fashion. Does this make Elway a hero? What do we really means when we say, “He was the hero of the game?”
And then I throw out two other names who you may not be as familiar with: Ethel Krajchir was my mother, a woman who grew up on the South side of Chicago, and was a self made professional, working as a bookkeeper and accountant by day and raising my sister and me into what I hope are productive members of society. She did this all through a failed marriage and while fighting Leukemia and Lymphoma until the day she finally succumbed to this disease. Like many mothers, she sacrificed her life, her dreams and her passions so that me and my sister could grow up to have a chance at ours. Is she a hero or is she just a responsible and caring mother, doing what mothers do? Does the fact that she did this at a weight of less than 80 pounds while her body was ravaged from the inside out make her efforts any more heroic?
And then lastly there is Evelyn Toboco, who is the mother of one of my oldest friends, and who was one of our school principals while growing up. Mrs. Toboco, as we referred to her, for more than 37 years led a cadre of other fantastic teachers at The Buckley School who chose to go into a profession not to make money but to mold young minds and to give young people the tools and experiences to use their God-given talent to their best ability – again, so we could pursue our dreams and have a full and productive life. Was Mrs. Toboco a hero? Were the teachers that sacrificed their lives for ours heroes? And is sacrifice actually the common criteria? What about teachers that don’t feel that they sacrificed anything by choosing to be a teacher? Are they still heroes?
If sacrifice is the common criteria then we circle back around to Lance Armstrong. If he hasn’t sacrificed for the benefit of others, then is he a hero? Yes he sacrificed as a cancer survivor, but it’s hard to say that he is sacrificing his life in his efforts to eradicate the world of cancer. He has the means, he has the time and if you follow his tweets, you’ll see that he seems to have a fairly full and blessed life. I’m not pointing this out to take anything away from what he has given back to society – which is undeniable, but it’s hard for me to state that he is sacrificing anything by doing it. It only seems to enhance his celebrity and his own personal opportunities.
So there we have it, and personally I’m left with even more questions than answers. Is a hero someone who simply does something for someone else? Is a hero someone who does something for someone else so that they can accomplish a dream? Or is that just being a good and productive member of society? What’s the difference between a hero and a caring friend or responsible parent? What’s the difference between a hero and a role model, or a celebrity, or an athlete? Why is it that we so easily apply the term to celebrities and athletes who do things simply because they have the financial means to have their accomplishments publicized while simpler people who sacrifice their lives for the benefit of others seem to go unnoticed and unacknowledged? If you compared the teacher who had the greatest impact on your life or the life of your child against a Lance Armstrong who has indisputably used his celebrity and accomplishments to do so much in the fight against cancer, who would you say is the hero? Maybe they fall into a spectrum.
What I do know is that there are people who have touched my life positively in many different ways, be they heroes, friends, teachers, parents or even strangers. Whether it’s generosity, self sacrifice, a successful outcome or intent that determines a hero, I can’t say. I’m hoping you can.










